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Get mad because of things they do? If you find yourself complaining, instead find a way to be grateful. Walk around as a whole, happy person, needing nothing.
Learn to fix your own problems. I wrote each challenge down and devoted at least one week to following through on them.
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And then we become adults, without having learned emotional self-reliance. This in itself is an endless source of entertainment and learning.
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